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Making the Most
of Your Wedding
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There is no doubt that planning a wedding can be one of the most daunting
tasks a person can undergo. Since the majority of the work traditionally
falls upon the bride and her family (let’s face it, the guys, largely,
just don’t care if the flowers are yellow and pink, canary and magenta,
or goldenrod and cherry) it is always a good idea to have the assistance
of a professional wedding planner or at least a trusted friend or relative
to help keep all of the details in order. That assistant can take care
of everything from ordering the cake to making sure the reception seating
arrangement is in order and Uncle Herbert is as far from the bar as
possible while Aunt Helen and Aunt Gertrude won’t come in contact with
one another at all. One thing that will be entirely up to the happy
couple, however, is the decision on the wedding vows. This is one aspect
of the event that the groom will have to participate in as well.
The traditional wedding vows are immortal and familiar to us all. We’ve
all heard the phrase “to love, honor, and cherish,” a million times
before and, regardless of race, religion, or nationality, we all immediately
associate these words with the marriage ceremony. There is nothing wrong
with that. The traditional wedding vows are powerful words of love and
commitment and, if you like those vows and they hold a special place
in your heart, then you should feel free to include them in your wedding
ceremony.
Many couples write their own wedding vows. The practice is now so common
that original wedding vows have almost replaced the traditional vows
as the norm for weddings, but that does not mean that the time-honored
vows are any less meaningful.
For those that do wish to write their own wedding vows, the options
are limitless. Some couples pen their wedding vows completely from their
hearts and minds, using this portion of the wedding ceremony as an opportunity
to express their love and devotion to one another in a very personal
way. Others borrow literary quotes, song lyrics, poetry, or other non-original
material that expresses their feelings for their beloved, to incorporate
into their wedding vows. Anything that says how you feel is acceptable.
A young spouse-to-be may sometimes experience writer’s block when composing
the wedding vows. This stems from anticipation of the pending event
and is perfectly natural. The best way to overcome this anxiety is to
slow down, close your eyes and think about your fiancée. Imagine what
you would say if he or she were right in front of you, with no one around.
Find the best way to tell that person how you feel, how deep your love
is, and what you promise to do and be as a husband or a wife. The words
will come in no time and the result will be a beautiful wedding ceremony
that is highlighted by beautiful and personal wedding vows.
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